Perceived Failure Versus Confidence Building and then the Good old Relationship-Re-Try or Do-Over

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What is Failure?

What is it like when I feel like We Failed? 

What is it like to feel like I Failed?

But What if breaking up is more of a Process; than a Failure?

Failure as the "Price of Honest Effort."

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CHARGES as "FAILURE"

  Is Failure even real?  

  Or is Failure a word or concept representing something that did not go my way?

  DV as a Failure to maintain Peace in a Relationship.

Yet, Life and each event in life could be viewed as a Process.

Life is a Continuous Process. 

"Treat each dawn as a clean tablet."

Then -- considering this: Is there room for SHAME?

Does SHAME Help?  Probably not?

Does Critical Thinking Help?

Acceptance of Failure brings a sense of Freedom.

Afterall, we tend to learn as we go.

Sometimes, we just need a Do-Over... 

Start-Over and use what you learned last time.

(Learn from your Failure.)

Tomorrow is another chance to succeed.

Choose Again and Learn Again.  (When ready...)

Otherwise we go stagnant.

What remains is the work on STARTING OVER.

This is about Teaching Success.  

The Virtues of Restarting -- Starting Over -- 

An Ernest Do-Over:

Separate what is Real from what is not.

Choose and Move Forward

Patience

Empathy

Listening

Agenda  And Flexibility

Attention

Forgiveness  (Forgive yourself too)

Common Purposes

Ability to Compromise

Set Clear Boundaries.

Just Set Forth the Non-Negotiables and then begin

What is Success to you?  Priorities?

What does Success look like when Applied to your current situation?

What are 3 of your next Steps towards Success?

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