Improving our Relationships; through the use of The Healthy Relationship Checklist

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Improving our Relationships; through the  use of The Healthy Relationship Checklist

  What does a Healthy Relationship look like?  That is a Good Question.

GREAT QUESTION!!!

  Perhaps it would look like Respect, Kindness, Communication, Love, Sharing, Playing Nice, (Reciprocation or  Symbiosis): Giving, Receiving and Mutual Benefit...  Altruism, Friendship, Caring, Patience, Acceptance, Occasional Selflessness, Offering Encouragement, Voluntary, Listening with Non-Judgementalness, Understanding their Feelings, Caring about their feelings, Accountability, Willful Openness, Ability and Willingness to Change, Respecting and Setting Healthy Boundaries, No-Shaming, No-Blaming, and No-Guilt Whipping, Playfulness, Laughing together, Sharing Joy, Giving or Helping Together, Supportiveness (especially through Grieving times as well as Celebrations), Loyalty and Honesty, Security, Commitment, Protectiveness, Acknowledgement, Not keeping Grudges, A Relationship Creede (The Foundation Pillars of the strengths and bonds that you shared and a list of commandments that keep that in place), Self-Discipline, Sexual Fairness, Being Secure in One's Self, Trust Your Partner, Contribute to your Trust-Bond, Be Grateful for your time with your Partner, Passionate, Develop Healthy Coping Skills Together or Separately, Each Partner is Almost Willing and Able to allow the other Partner Plenty of Space, Being able to Confide in Each Other, Rely on each other, Willingness and Ability and Commitment to Caring for the other even when they cannot care for themselves, To Love Each Other Unconditionally, Bring Willing and Able Give Time without expecting a return, To give each other respect unconditionally, To let go of all Grudges as quickly as you can, To be able to care about your partner continuously without questioning her sense of Morality.