How to NEVER AGAIN get a DV-related Charge? -- OR -- How to have a Healthy Relationship?

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First Off....  the idea really is... 

    How to NEVER AGAIN have DV in your life...

    RIGHT ?!!!?  

Even better...  What does a person gotta do to have 

   a Healthy Non-Violent Relationship that they enjoy 

and that helps them flourish? 

What are your ideas on this?  

What do you gotta do?

Learn about each other.

          Learn about each other's values. 

Respect 

Communication

Time

Space

Boundaries (Clearly stated; and then Respected)

You need to be abel to have some fun together

Stability, Reliability, Viability, Agility, Responsiblity, Availability, 

Time

Connection

Attention -- Giving them the Attention they want...  

Support

Tenacity

Endurance

Motivation

Caring, Helpfulness, Stick-to-it-ive-ness

Sharing Interests and Hobbies

Humility and Forgiveness

Nurturing

Maturity, Responsibility and Charity

Ability to go

Strength

Willingness to Shut the -F- up.

Patience

Good Listening Skills

Participation

Variety

Mindfulness, Consideration, Introspection and 

  a Willingness to Change

Honesty

Healthy Change / Flexibility

Generousity

Accountability

Reliability

Empathy and Sympathy

Humility

Good Character

Commitment to Non-Violence

Cheerfulness, Happiness and a Sense of Humor  (Positive Emotions)

Communication

Aliveness

A reasonable amount of Sobriety

Priorities

A sense of Equality

Hard Work

Caring

Open Listening -- Listening with a willing heart

Nice Gifts

Positive Energy

Good Physical Health and Good Mental Health

Consistency

Positive Energy

Peace

Genuineness

Safety

Communication

Faith

Joy

Fun

Adventure

A sense of security

Friendship

Ability to Walk Away when necessary

Good Sex

Spirituality

Someone we can trust like we would trust a parent

Link to: "How to have a healthy relationship | Jillian Turecki | TEDxNashville"

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